Monday, August 31, 2015

Free to be... Codependent No More!

Experiencing any of these or do you know someone that is. Definition of codependency. A co - dependent person is ones who has let another person's thoughts, feelings and behavior affect him or her, and who is obsessed with controlling that person's thoughts, feelings and behavior. Afraid to let people be who they are and allow events to happen naturally. Try to control events & people thru helplessness , guilt, coercion, threats, advice giving, manipulation and domination. Pretend circumstances are not as bad as they are. Tell themselves things will be better tomorrow. Latch on to whoever or whatever will make them happy. Often seek love from people incapable of loving. Don't take time to see if people are good for them. Don't take time to see if they love or like people. Center their life around love. Stay in relationships that don't work. Feel trapped in relationships. Wonder if they will ever find love. Talk to much, talk about other people. Feel very scared, hurt and angry. Reduce sex to a technical act. Wonder why they don't enjoy sex,lose interest in sex, make up reasons to abstain from sex. The good news is there is hope! Come join our codependent no more workshop starting Monday September 14, 2015. Please contact me for more information or to be sent a flyer. This group will close at 10 members and at this writing we already have 6. So contact me to get on the list. www.abundantsolutionscounseling.com or call me at 303 - 520 -5092. Or find me on Facebook.. Twitter or G+. Peace to you all and hope to see you soon. Paul.

Tuesday, August 18, 2015

Tonight!!

Hello lovely people, tonight is the night we start Beyond Codependency Group! We have a few spots open for those that want to refresh or for those that have previous experience in CODA or those that have been thru the first group.If you cannot make it tonight no worries as you have 2 weeks before we close the group. Contact me and I will get a flyer out to you. And be looking for the Flyer/ Announcement to the beginners group starting in September.

Wednesday, August 12, 2015

Beyond Codependency Group.

ATTENTION: I am excited to share with you about a New Group that starts in 2 Weeks from today. Its the Beyond CoDependency Group. Become a Ninja Boundary setting individual. This is the next level in the freedom from Codependency we will still work out of the book "Beyond Codependency" but with a completely different format that will allow a more therapeutic approach. Please get your name on our list as we already have 6 people in the group and there is only 4 more spots left.Contact me for a flyer for more information. Paulyluv.as@gmail.com or 303- 520 - 5092. or here at www.Abundantsolutionscounseling.com There is prerequsits to this course so please read this on the flyer. P.S. In another week I will announce the beginners course in Codependence that starts in September so please stay tuned. This group is already half full and also caps out at 10 group members. Thanks and Peace to you all. Paul.